Liver heat formulas that also help nightmares or dream disturbed sleep

My boyfriend lost his father in a very traumatic way about 18 months ago. Since then he has been unable to handle stress, has angry outbursts, depression, anxiety, nightmares that just won’t go away, gets easily agitated etc. After trying many resources and also finding out he has high blood pressure suddenly he was put on blood pressure medications as well which seemed to take a bad situation and make it worse. Not only did the multiple meds not lower his blood pressure his moods, libido, outbursts, etc even inability to enjoy anything in life or even plan a future anymore was just destroyed. We decided to do away with the blood pressure medications and try to use TCM instead. He tried acupuncture during which the practitioner focused on the liver. He felt fine after and then it was as if he exploded - he was agitated, angry, miserable it was actually the worst he had been and he was having a difficult time handling it. We dug deeper and came to find out that he had liver failure at age 20 and that the acupuncturist likely was right on the mark but treated as though she was dealing with a healthy liver not a damaged one. A week later he was on business trip out of the country and contracted a virus that made him very ill but may have been a blessing in disguise - his dr noted that his eyes were yellow and he needed to relax and stay well hydrated and watch what he ate and keep it light. He suddenly started to act like a new person. I work for a doctor who practices homeopathy and who is trained in chinese medicine and acupuncture and when he heard this we started to piece together that he has too much heat in his liver and that it is inflamed and causing him to be agitated, angry, emotional, etc. the more reading I did the more the descriptions fit him like a glove. We started altering his diet to cater to cooling the liver, I ordered him a formula called “free and easy wanderer” that is supposed to help cool the liver and balance the yin/yang. He is doing much better. His moods have improved, his eyes are clear, he controls his anger, he is more optimistic, he handles stress better and it has only been a week. The only part that is still not resolved is the dream disturbed sleep. I am not sure what herb/herbs may be missing to address this issue. I understand that it is more the gall bladder meridian that controls this issue. I do not want to ruin the great progress we have made but I do want to figure out what I’m missing and add it so we have the entire situation covered and he can really heal. He is drinking peppermint tea when he starts to feel agitated, we are careful about what herbs heat and cool the liver, he is following a diet that is more vegetable and fruit and less meat. He is also taking an adaptogen called Ashwangadha which has worked wonders for him overall as well. What am I missing for the dream disturbed sleep? He cannot take things such as valerian or mealtonin as they give him more vivid nightmares. Any help would be appreciated

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